A Beginner's Guide On How To Deal With RAGING Narcissists

You haven't heard? Becoming a narcissist is trending!

Have you ever felt this strange sensation of being controlled?

Moments where you feel controlled with invisible strings by a puppeteer behind the scenes. You don't want to admit it, but you have this strange suspension it might be your "friend" (and yet you do not want to entertain the idea because it would be such a heavy burden to accept). Despite the constant betrayal-forgive-betrayal cycle, you remain in each other's life out of "loyalty" until you reach a breaking point.

Others look at you from the outside and it seems as if you are completely free.

However, it's the exact opposite, you are trapped inside a glass box with very limited movement… and free will.

Today's entry I share with you critical information that will:

  • Wake you up to see this zombie like apocalypse of raging narcissists.

  • How to avoid becoming a victim to these heartless narcissists who wait around the corner for their next prey to take advantage of.

  • Help you identify the crystal clear behavior traits to quite literally save you YEARS of your life on wasted efforts.

When you become this good - you quite literally can predict and warn your real friends from danger.

AM I THE ONLY THAT SEES "IT"

There's an urging zombie like apocalypse among us (and it's accelerating at an exponential rate).

Modern culture has shifted so drastically with technological advancements.

However, the most glaring concern for me is this one thing:

Delusional Egos that do not get checked by objective reality instead of encouraging a delusional sense of reality.

You have billions around the world, across multiple generations alive to the unborn, with hidden agendas trying to become an overnight celebrity.

In the past, celebrities went through a very selective screening process to become the lucky "chosen" ones.

Now, that's entirely determined by an algorithm that has set the bar so pathetically low (to the point I physically cringe every time I see it).

Anybody can get the amount of attention which surpasses past Kings and Queens wildest imagination.

Beautiful women get more attention and "influence" than Julius Caesar, Napoleon and Alexander The Great… COMBINED by simply waking up from sleep (all she did was post a photo overnight).

Analyze this situation through a 'perceived reality vs objective reality' lens.

You have pranksters making an absolute fool of themselves to the point of little to no self-respect to get more views from other young men… who aspire to become like these blind "leaders" leading even more blind generation.

Now don't get me started with these "make money" gurus (that actually made their money by teaching others "how to make money")…

Please explain to me why the most qualified person, Jeff Bezos, owner of Amazon, doesn't sell an online course.

Entire generations are chasing after status and fame to the point zero effort has been put into actual core "non-ego based" confidence.

The direction of society is breeding an unhealthy level of narcissists.

At this rate:

This invisible non-life threatening narcissist apocalypse emerging will make social interactions unbearable to the point humans will shift to a tribal communal way of living for those in the position to do so.

Now with all of this in mind - have you considered the fact that social intelligence has dropped to an all-time low?

The birth of technology provides tremendous convenience to the point online interactions take place more than in-person interactions where mirror neurons are activated and firing on all cylinders.

This leads me to one of the absolute critical skills you must have.

MUST HAVE SOCIAL INTELLECT

Listen: it's your own fault you get manipulated.

I don't care what you can come up with that says otherwise.

It's your own fuckin' fault so accept it and move on with your life.

If you saw exactly what the puppet master was doing by not appealing to mutual self-interest (and if you had any self-respect: you would cut the fuckin' strings immediately).

The only reason you don't?

You cannot see the social nuances at play directly in front of your eyes (or you need to work on this: https://www.philosophyofjiu-jitsu.com/p/the-powerful-secret-treasures-from-willingness-to-walkaway-cd34).

And the likelihood of you encountering narcissists that understands how to play social checkers or even chess is extremely high (especially if they see how to use you for their own selfish benefit).

Fact of the matter is if you are positioned as a scarce resource these raging narcissist will come looking for you.

You see.

Narcissists are supreme actors that can mold themselves to whatever situation necessary to go undetected.

Narcissists have the ability to project "sincere" empathy to trick you onto their side by winning your sympathy whilst they continue plotting behind closed doors.

Narcissists went through unfortunate upbringings where they were not able to develop a health sense of self due to critical parenting aspects being neglected.

Chances are there's one lurking within your circles.

As a simple case study - I'd recommend keeping them at arms distance and nothing closer than that.

Studying how narcissists operate will be one of the most eye opening experiences into human nature.

In my private life I once became very close to a few without actually realizing what I was doing with as I was under their hypnotic spell.

After years of reflection and reviewing past experiences - I became so good at identifying the hidden layer beneath social dynamics called…

Character Analysis

Identify the overlap in a wide variety of environments, contexts and situations will help you see it.

About a year ago two friends wanted to meet up with a raging narcissist I was close with until I completely cut ties.

In a nutshell - I told them this…

Warning: do not meet this individual.

All he does is use people to inflate his own ego via the means of playing with perception on instagram.

If he does not find any use for you, the narcissist will completely discard you like a piece of trash.

And it will get worse as time goes on if you are not careful.

These types will go through such extreme lengths to get exactly what they want… at any means necessary.

Don't believe me?

I triple dog dare you to poke directly at their ego to simply observe how they react [while they try to backwards rationalize their irrational behavior to safe their sense of self as if life depended on it].

The narcissist rage is absolutely a real thing.

Remember this: unlike you and I - narcissists do not have a sense of self outside of other people's opinion of them. They thrive off of validation and attention to get their next ego stroke like a homeless crack addict.

OPTIMIZE FOR AUTHENTIC CONNECTIONS

While the masses shift towards the digital landscape, proactively seek the in-person interactions.

Hone your social skills to expand the horizons of your awareness to develop social intelligence in the most essential areas and drastically improve your quality of life.

Don't become yet another sheep following the blind just because it's "cool."

I can assure you these "gurus" will never put your self-interest above their own.

Think for yourself.

The evolutionary designed mind is only able to sustain 150 social connections.

These very limited positions on your team must not be wasted on the wrong people.

Do NOT mistaken "loyalty" with stupidity.

Ignore this will only lead to your own self-demise as if you feel your honor was at stake.

Quite frankly, the highest form of love occurs through tough love for the individual to experience a much needed wake up call [as nobody else had the balls to do it despite watching the individual head towards a downwards spiral].

You see.

Your character is developed by how your respond, not by micromanaging your behavior to cater to what others think who you are as if your are a PR manager.

Absolutely nobody's thoughts will ever exceed your own inner voice.

Your inner circles are nothing, but your board of advisors to provide alternative perspective so your the CEO can make the best informed decisions.

With the growing number of narcissists do not fall into the trap through fool's gold disguised as "status" as many have taken this very concept that is true to such extreme heights just to…

You guessed it.

Sell a quick fix program for the guru's own hidden agenda without embracing the type of transparency that will risk losing the sale.

See ya on the mats,

POJ